Care
Yesterday, I wrote about the necessity of being an active participant in a child's education. I have a few thoughts that I wish to add to this topic, now that I have had some time to converse a bit with teachers and parents on this topic. I think that every child wants to know that his parents (and the other significant adults in his or her life) care. What does this mean in a practical sense? I think it means giving time and attention, asking questions and showing interest. It means persisting. Do my dad and mom care about me? * Does he come to see me play my games? * Does he look over my homework or ask about the book I am reading for school? * Does she check my grades on the computer and try to help my solve my problems? * Does he notice when I am not myself and sit and listen when I need to pour out my messy thoughts and emotions? * Does she stay on my case even when I tell her to leave me alone, because she knows that, left alone, I can't help myself and things will only g...